
I like your way of thinking PRC!!!
Iftars are coming back to me - I had one day off last week when my husband was out with his company. The children had been fed, so it was just me, myself and I. I plated up my food (rice & peas for anyone who's remotely interested!) and a bowl of soup. The children also wanted some soup, so I dished them up some too.
Sitting down to eat, my son said, "Mummy, your rice smells delicious", so I said, "But you said you didn't want any" (I know, what a bad mother am I that I argue with my son about food!! - it's
mine!!!). I then relented (a bit) and said, "Okay, once you finish your soup, I'll bring you some rice" (delaying tactics so I could gobble mine down). He then came back with, "My soup's too hot, so can I have the rice now".....I ended up handing over half my Iftar (grudgingly!!)

I used to be indecisive, but now I'm not so sure...